Romans 1:26-27 For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error. Those of us who believe strongly in the authority of the Bible read passages like this with fear and trepidation. The Apostle Paul, writing to the network of house churches in Rome some 20-25 years after the death and resurrection of Jesus, declares at the outset that homosexual behavior is the result of humanity's idolatry: arrogantly or ignorantly refusing to worship the Creator. Paul not only declares, he reasons, noting the unnatural nature of gay and lesbian sexual activity.
Evangelical Christians are unwaveringly taught that homosexuality is an easy, non-negotiable issue: there are 6 passages dotted throughout Scripture and all of them condemn it. Slam dunk. Game over. In recent conversations about
gay marriage [Proposition 8 in CA],
gays in the military [will Obama overturn 'don't ask, don't tell'?] and, first and foremost, gay
/lesbian participation in Christian discipleship have opened the Bible to a mostly closed conversation. This issue, perhaps more than any in the American suburban context, opens our eyes to what it means for the Bible to function authoritatively in our lives.
Two passages in Israel's Torah [Leviticus 18:22 & 20:13], call homosexual behavior an abomination. The context is the radical formation of a new community, in a new land, setting themselves apart from the religious and social practices of Egypt [where they came from] and Canaan [their destination]. God would not tolerate the practice of homosexual prostitution used in the worship of foreign gods, nor would God condone the shameful degradation used in military practice after the invasion of a city. Perhaps, God was reminding his people of the need to increase in numbers ['be fruitful and multiply'] as they grew into a nation who would be a 'light to the nations.'
In the NT, Paul writes [in Greek] to the small Gentile Christian community in Corinth to abstain from μαλακοi & aρσενοκοiται. Contextually, these referred to the ancient practices of pederastry, a older, weathy man [aρσενοκοiται] purchasing a younger boy [μαλακοi] as a sexual slave. Even though it is hard for us to fathom, this nonconsensual, dehumanizing practice was a live option for Corinthian disciples of Jesus and, surely, those in Christ would abstain from it! These aρσενοκοiται would be the equivalent of 'dirty, perverted old men' today who get off on porn, prostitutes, or the old guy who used to attend baseball games at the University of Kansas to masturbate to girls' feet [sad, but true story].
In I Timothy 1:10, Paul again refers to aρσενοκοiταις and adds another group: aνδραποδισταiς. This probably was a word referring to kidnappers and sexual slave traders, supplying many of the μαλακοi for wealthy men. Again, horrific group of guys...no wonder Paul banned them from the Kingdom of God.
Lastly, there is Paul's blatant condemnation of gays and lesbian sexuality found in the introduction to his scroll letter to the Romans. Paul is reasoning from nature, just like the secular philosophers from the Roman Empire. These philosophers believed sex was for procreation and to stem the tide of overflowing lust. He had
no concept of homosexuality as a committed relationship of two equal partners. He had
no concept of homosexuality as intensely rooted in one's identity. He had
no concept of the very live possibility that men and women develop sexual attraction and urges at birth or the first 18 months of life.
With this contextuality laid out before us, we must now decide what biblical authority means for us today. Most of us Evangelicals have been trained to understand Truth [with a capital 'T'] as coming from a simple and certain reading of the Bible. As my 4th grade teacher at Capistrano Valley Christian School used to say, 'God said it, I believe it and that settles it.' But a lot of issues in Scripture have become unsettled as we think critically about the text, weighing scientific and social-scientific findings, our own experience, the life testimony of others and the results of history: think slavery, women's roles/rights, charging interest on loans & sexuality in marriage [is it all about procreation?].
First of all, homosexuality is not a meta-label that we can use with broad brush strokes. Not all forms of homosexuality [like heterosexuality] are equal. We can narrow our questions [gay marriage, gays in the military, gay discipleship] to a specific form of homosexual orientation and behavior: the commitment to celibacy or monogamy [date one partner with sexual integrity or be committed for life in marriage to one partner in fidelity--just as we expect heterosexual disciples of Jesus]. Homosexual activity in baths and bars, one-night stands, prostitution, porn, partner-swapping--these are all dehumanizing, destructive and, most often times, non-consensual behaviors. The bold experiment of two men [or two women] committing to a lifetime of love, service, forgiveness, empathy and, yes, sexual intimacy should be a live consideration for radical followers of Jesus whose sexual testimony declares same-sex feelings/urges.
Second, the living Word, the movement of the Holy Spirit [the presence of the risen Christ!] as discerned through Scripture, prayer, testimony and consensus decision-making [see Acts 15 for our profound model] is the biblical paradigm for how God speaks in
every era. Throughout Scripture, God's Word
changes. Two examples: in the sermon on the mount in Matthew 5-7, Jesus overturns God's Word to Israel ['you have heard that it was said, but I say to you']; in addition, Paul's reading of Scripture [the Hebrew Bible] consistently finds fresh interpretive meaning and value as a result of God's shocking arrival in Jesus the Messiah from Nazareth. When the Body of Christ is bound by a status-quo reading of Scripture, we have often been positioned on the wrong side of history, oppressing the truth. Two examples [of many] should suffice here:
Martin Luther said, ‘This fool Copernicus wishes to reverse the entire science of astronomy; but sacred Scripture in Joshua 10:13 tells us that Joshua commanded the sun to stand still, and not the earth.’ Not only does this Luther quote remind us to humbly weigh what our leaders are saying, it also reminds of how not to read the Bible. Luther was assuming that the author of Joshua got it right in regards to everything, including astronomy. We know Copernicus was right and Luther's reading of Scripture was wrong.
In similar ways, the legendary Princeton theologian Charles Hodge found himself waffling in the middle of the 19th century with the moral question of his day: slavery. He wrote, ‘The fact that the Mosaic institutions recognized the lawfulness of slavery is a point too plain to need proof, and is almost universally admitted. Our argument from this acknowledged fact is that if God allowed slavery to exist, if he directed how slaves might be lawfully acquired, and how they were to be treated, it is in vain to contend that slaveholding is a sin, and yet profess reverence for the Scriptures.’ A flat biblical reading strategy led to Hodge's blunder.
Third, gay and lesbian issues are being swept under the carpet by Evangelical leaders partly because of homosexuality's uber-minority status. Just 2-3% of the American population professes a homosexual orientation. This leaves the gay community at the whims of the overwhelming majority of heterosexuals who mostly do not understand the issue [they've never had these feelings/urges] and mostly do not see it ever affecting their lives. They don't know gay people [or so they think] so they don't see it affecting their discipleship. However, homosexuality's minority status [both in
numbers and in terms of
oppression through name-calling, physical abuse and withholding Constitutional rights] should automatically make it a live issue for Evangelicals since God consistently moves at the periphery of society: ‘Can anything good come out of Nazareth?’ God is the protector of the oppressed, marginalized and broken-hearted over and over and over again in the Bible.
My wife has studied the issue of long-term homosexual relationships. Studies of non-distressed homosexual populations HAVE shown that gay male couples are actually more cohesive (on average) than heterosexual married couples, who are (on average) more disengaged. Are same-sex marriages a
prophetic model for the onslaught of broken marriages in the American Body of Christ? Perhaps there is much we heterosexuals [who have the protected right to get married as many times as we like] can learn from this minority group.
What then shall we do?
1.
Learn: there are some excellent, eye-opening writings by well-respected theologians that have put a lot of time and energy [and been converted] into this issue.
Walter Wink and
Jeffrey Siker are two valuable conversation partners.
2.
Listen: when gay and lesbian disciples of Jesus tell their story it is a powerful spiritual practice. Their passion and pain are doubly convicting. Check the internet to see what's going on in your area. There are great opportunities even in
the OC!
3.
Prayerful Dialogue: what do your brothers and sisters in Christ think about this issue and how are they coming to these convictions? This happens best over a beverage of choice and a lot of space to ask questions and the boldness to leave some of them unanswered.
4.
Mainstream the Conversation: ask your pastors and ministry leaders to make this topic a priority. Multiple voices should be represented in a forum that asks:
should gays and lesbians be included as full participants in the Kingdom of God? [just like multiple voices were heard when Gentiles were considered for full membership in God's family...again, see Acts 15]. Most Evangelical pastors are scared to death of fully entering this conversation because what their congregations will think.
So...some follow up questions to consider:1. Is homosexuality is sin? Depends on what one means by 'homosexuality.' I would propose that there are two gay options just as there are two heterosexual options: celibacy or monogamy---taking sexual integrity seriously. These options are not a sin, but an
opportunity for service and growth in the kingdom of God. Other options [homosexual or heterosexual] are dehumanizing, destructive and erodes God's intent for love and sexuality.
2. Can someone be both 'gay' and 'Christian?' Depends on what one means by 'gay' and 'Christian.' Since my wife and I are rooted the Anabaptist Christian tradition, I believe a Christian is one who makes a decision to pledge allegiance to God's Kingdom. The New Testament refuses to define Christian faith outside of radical, scandalous discipleship: loving and forgiving our neighbor & enemy, serving the marginalized and committing to radical alternatives [to secular and accultured Christian options] of relationship, spirituality, justice and beauty as illustrated by God's Story in Scripture. For my definition of 'gay,' see #1. So, a 'gay Christian' is one who commits to radical, scandalous discipleship to the One they fall in love with [Jesus] and who commits to a life of reflecting Jesus' love, forgiveness and service to the other one they fall in love with [the member of the same-sex who completes him/her].
3. Am I crazy? Let the conversation begin.